refactor: clean CLI taxonomy — canonical subcommands, merged memory.update, no aliases

- calendar: split write → create/read/update/delete/share
- contacts: rename lookup → read
- memory: merge write+forget → update (unified action field in operations)
- Remove all alias/normalization logic from adapter and handlers
- Update tool_postprocessor ui_hints builders to canonical keys
- Remove frontend legacy TOOL_CALL_START/ARGS/END events and ToolCallItem
- Update SKILL.md files and protocol docs
- Update tests and settings screens

apps/lib/features/chat/presentation/bloc/chat_bloc.dart

@@ -257,7 +257,17 @@ class ChatBloc extends Cubit<ChatState> implements ChatOrchestrator {
   bool _shouldRefreshCalendarForTool(ToolCallResultEvent event) {
     final name = event.toolName.trim().toLowerCase();
     final status = event.status.trim().toLowerCase();
-    if (name != 'calendar_write') {
+    if (name != 'project_cli') {
+      return false;
+    }
+    final args = event.toolCallArgs;
+    if (args == null) {
+      return false;
+    }
+    final command = (args['command'] as String?)?.trim().toLowerCase();
+    final subcommand = (args['subcommand'] as String?)?.trim().toLowerCase();
+    const mutationSubcommands = {'create', 'update', 'delete'};
+    if (command != 'calendar' || !mutationSubcommands.contains(subcommand)) {
       return false;
     }
     return status == 'success' || status == 'partial';